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The Retirement Wall of Shame: Mistakes That Wreck Retirement Plans (SB1863)
Jul 3, 2026   •   1 HOUR 14 MIN

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Most retirement content talks about what to do. This episode talks about what actually goes wrong -- and how often it happens to people who thought they had it figured out. Joel Larsgaard of How to Money, Paula Pant of Afford Anything, and Jesse Cramer of Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors each nominate their worst retirement mistake for the wall of shame. Some make it. Some get argued off. All of them are more common than you'd think.

What You'll Walk Away With

  • Why "everything's going to go according to plan" is the most dangerous assumption in retirement -- and the gray swan events nobody sees coming that quietly derail otherwise solid plans
  • The difference between a black swan and a gray swan: why divorce, health changes, and job loss in your early 60s aren't surprises exactly, and yet almost nobody plans for them
  • Why most people retire two to three years earlier than they expected -- and why those lost years tend to be peak earning years
  • The pre-tax wealth trap: why the number in your 401(k) isn't the number you actually get to spend -- and the planning that closes the gap
  • Joel's RV warning: why the most regretted retirement purchase is almost always the one that seemed most exciting at the moment of retirement
  • The copy-paste retirement: why doing what other retirees do -- epic trips, vacation homes, the shiny version of leisure -- often produces a quietly miserable result
  • Why the 4% rule is a starting point, not a sentence: how lumpy real-world expenses, medical costs, and changing needs make a fixed withdrawal rate more aspiration than reality
  • The lifestyle design question underneath all of it: why Fritz Gilbert's polling of actual retirees found that finances barely make the top concerns list once you're actually retired
  • Paula's fix for the go-go years: how a dedicated travel bucket with a deliberate spend-down timeline lets you enjoy early retirement without quietly mortgaging the rest of it
  • Why the 18-month retirement honeymoon often ends in the biggest depression of someone's life -- and what to do before you retire to prevent it


Why This Matters Now

Every mistake on this wall is more common than it should be -- and most of them are fixable with a little planning before the moment arrives. This episode is the conversation to have while you still have time to change something.

From the Basement

Joel Larsgaard, Paula Pant, and Jesse Cramer build the retirement wall of shame live, with Joe trying and failing to get anyone to argue anyone else off the board. Paula tries to win the trivia competition for the second week in a row with a guess of $500 on George Washington's Continental Army salary -- was she right???? Happy Fourth of July from mom's basement, and Stephen Merchant has some thoughts about the holiday.

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